Carole king and martika knew all along. A new love moves you. Makes you feel brand new. I met this guy last night. Irresistibly my type. Creative, down to earth and with a job. Not to mention cute as hell. With all the guys in my gayborhood wanting a wham bam thank you mam. After a few failed relationships. When is the heart safe to try again. We all want to be with someone its part of human nature. I personally don’t like being alone. I don’t like feeling that no one cares about my trials and tribulations. I don’t like the fact that I’m the only one who reveals in my achievements and personal growth. While in a relationship your personal growth gets more stagnant as you focus on new objectives. I becomes we, me becomes us. We like these things. This is our home. Individuality is hindered and put aside for the greater cause of holding a relationship together. It is well known that people go through major personal development and changes after a relationship ends. We go do those things our partner would have frowned upon, we write a different style of music, change our tone and get a new tattoo. I was very unhappy in my last relationship and even though a sabbatical from dating is good when temporary, spending the night in the arms of another feels very good. Albeit dancing around naked in your apartment to the breakup song of the summer has its own rewards.